My boyfriend acts like a robot in bed. How do I help him be more spontaneous? | Weekend

Q My new friend adopts our sex life formulaically. He knows a way to give me an orgasm, so he sticks to that way every time. When I try to change things he seems uncomfortable and we end up back in the same old routine. I don’t know how to help him be less robotic and more spontaneous

A Having sex with a new partner can be a bit like learning to swim. The first time you can get in the water and stay afloat doggy paddling is an absolute joy, but learning to swim properly is a nightmare. You must unlearn everything you did naturally to learn to swim effectively. It is the same with

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