“Bed Death,” Opening Up Relationships and DIY Haircuts


Welcome to the 51st edition of Into the A + Advice Box, in which we answer all queer and lesbian counseling questions from A + members who put their questions in our A + Ask Box! Here we answer your questions in a room only for A + members, safe from the public. (No guarantees regarding your ex, though.) Here, the Autostraddle team offers advice on everything from sex and relationships to friendship and family dynamics, career issues, style, and more! We’re doing this column TWICE a month now.

Every SECOND A + advice box of the month has a motto! This month’s theme is NEW YEAR NEW LOOK. We want ALL of your questions about updating your look! Hair, make-up, clothes, shoes, nails, jewelry, piercings and tattoos, body language – if you think it fits, then it fits! The general Into the A + Advice Box (like this one), in which we answer questions on practically every topic, appears every first Friday of the month and you can send questions on any topic at any time. Get these questions …


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