6 Unsexy Things Men Want In Bed

My post 6 Things That Women Want In Bed was well received by many readers who said I hit the nail on the head.

A male reader asked me to write the same post from the male perspective.

I responded that most men are pretty vocal about what they want in bed, but then I realized that they are probably just as bad as women are at explaining WHY they want what they want in bed. And that’s where I can help


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Here are 6 unsexy things that men want in bed:

1. Foreplay

The greatest misconception of the 20th century (I love hyperbole) is that men do not like foreplay. Sure, some men either don’t like foreplay or are bad at it. But in the majority of couples I see where the woman’s libido is lower than the man’s (read: the majority of couples in the world), it is the woman who offers “quickies” as though this is some sort of compromise where the man gets his rocks off, which she mistakenly thinks is his goal, and she gets to, well, have less sex.

This is as ridiculous as if a woman wanted date nights and her husband thought her entire goal was to eat dinner, so he drove like a maniac to the restaurant where the meal was pre-ordered, encouraged her to shove it down her gullet, and raced back home, then turned to her and asked why she was upset.

Men, or people with a physical touch love language in general, want to be touched, they want the erotic experience, and they want sex to take at least a half hour and hopefully a couple of hours (not every time, but also not only when the moon is in the 7th house of Aquarius). This is what they mean by sex; if they only wanted an orgasm, they know how to masturbate.


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